There are questions we don’t ask because they seem too personal, too awkward, too sexual, too embarrassing, or maybe just too strange to bring up in ordinary conversation. This is the place for those questions. Maybe you’ve wondered whether something you think, feel, want, fear, or do is common....

Desire is one of those things we sometimes talk about as though it is fixed. You like what you like. You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to. End of story. Except I’m not sure that’s true. What turns us on can change with age, experience, relationships, confidence, our bodies, and simply le...

Making friends with other guys seemed simpler when we were younger. You went to school together, worked together, played on the same team, lived nearby, or just ended up hanging around. Somewhere along the way, that can change. Friendships become harder to start, harder to maintain, and sometimes ...

Men are often expected to carry certain things without saying much. Fear. Loneliness. Insecurity. Sex. Money. Aging. Relationships. Sometimes even happiness. I’m curious what belongs on your list. What is something you think men are expected to handle quietly, whether anyone actually says so or ...