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We've published a report exploring a question that doesn't always have an easy answer: Could you be happy in a relationship without sex?
The report looks at how men think about intimacy, desire, emotional connection, and what makes a relationship fulfilling.
But the numbers and findings are only part of the story. I'm interested in the experiences and perspectives behind them.
Could you imagine being happy in a relationship without sex? Would your answer depend on the circumstances, the person, or the kind of intimacy you share?
You can read the full report here.
There's no right answer. Feel free to share what you think, whether it reflects your own experience or simply raises questions for you.