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I do not recall being attracted to another male in the sense of desiring partnered sex with him. I have been attracted to straight friends — but all w...
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To me, a kink constitutes a specific sexual interest that draws you into exploring it further. In this way, kinks are more personal today, I think, th...
My spouse is also my best friend. I can openly discuss most things with her, but not everything. I think the difference in gender makes it more diffic...