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No, not all men. Probably more than will admit it, though — curiosity, comparison, and aesthetic interest are common even among straight guys, and the...
This really resonates with me, especially the idea of developing different masks for different places and learning where it was safe to let them come ...
Definitely. I think one of the biggest changes for me has been becoming less concerned about whether what I find attractive or enjoy fits neatly into ...
Hi! Welcome to the conversation! That distinction between the type of man you're attracted to staying fairly consistent and what you want from him c...