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Not so much getting older, but having more access to clothing optional/naturist spaces. Being around a large group of naked people can really open you...
Except for junior high, I've always been comfortable naked around other men (women too, but I have had much less opportunity for that). I grew up on a...
It took us quite a bit of time. First, we realized that we both had different 'agendas' when it came to partnered sex. We had very different likes/dis...
Yes, in most cases.
I have been attracted to many straight friends. I would never initiate anything physical with any of them. Depending on their character and reactions,...
At one point, years ago, my husband and I both admitted that we really did not like partnered sex. Neither of us have ever been into anal sex, and nei...